一、人在江湖，你会慢慢发现，一颗好心，不如一张好嘴，好心永远比不过好嘴。

When you are in the world, you will find that a good heart is better than a good mouth. A good heart can never be better than a good mouth.

二、当你毫无保留的信任一个人，最终只会有这两种结果，不是生命中的那个人，就是生命中的一堂课。

When you trust a person without reservation, there will only be two results in the end, either the person in life, or a lesson in life.

三、老实说，不管你跟谁结婚，结婚以后，你总发现娶得不是原来的人，换了另外一个。

To be honest, no matter who you marry, after marriage, you always find that you have married someone else instead of the original one.

四、世间总有一些事，是我们永远无法解释也无法说清的，我们必须接受自己的渺小和自己的无能为力。

There are always some things in the world that we can never explain or explain clearly. We must accept our own smallness and powerlessness.

五、在这个世界上，人总是违背着自己的意愿，做着自己不喜欢的事，过着自己不想要的生活。

In this world, people always go against their will, do things they don't like and live a life they don't want.

六、我们忙碌的目的往往是：享受生活、回报父母、满足爱人，想无私；可我们忙碌的结果往往是：享受不了生活、远离了父母、冷落了爱人，成了自私。

The purpose of our busy life is often to enjoy life, repay parents, satisfy lovers, and want to be selfless; but the result of our busy life is that we can't enjoy life, stay away from parents, neglect our lover, and become selfish.

七、面对现实的坚硬，生活的艰难，焦头烂额的自己，才明白这次是真正的生活，自己一步一步的走出来，否则能怎样。

In the face of the reality of the hard, hard life, the amount of their own, only to understand that this is the real life, step by step out of their own, otherwise what can be done.

八、心太软的人是很难快乐的，拒绝别人就像自己做错了事，心软是一种不公平的善良，成全了别人，委屈了自己，却被别人当成了傻子。

It's hard for a person with a soft heart to be happy. Refusing others is like doing something wrong. Being soft hearted is an unfair kindness. It helps others, wrongs himself, but is regarded as a fool by others.

九、执着是一种负担，放弃是一种解脱。人没有完美，幸福没有一百分，不能拥有那么多，何必要求那么多。

Persistence is a burden, giving up is a relief. People are not perfect, happiness is not 100 points, can not have so much, why ask so much.

十、所谓成长，就是逼着你一个人，踉踉跄跄的受伤，跌跌撞撞的坚强。

The so-called growth, is to force you a person, stumbling injury, stumbling strong.