一、善良要有底线，大方要有原则。不分青红皂白，只知道对人好，那会辜负自己的一片好心。

Kindness needs a bottom line and generosity needs principles. Be indiscriminate, only know to be good to others, that will disappoint one's own good intentions.

二、你要明白，只有走完必须走的路，才能过想过的生活，只有熬过无人问津的日子，才能拥抱你的诗和远方。

You have to understand that only through the road must go, to live the life you want, only through the days no one CARES, to embrace your poetry and distance.

三、不必过于在意人与人之间表面的情绪；挚交之人不需要，泛交之人用不着。情绪这东西，你不在乎，它就伤不到你。

Don't care too much about the surface emotions between people; Sincere friends do not need, the people do not need. Emotion, you don't care, it won't hurt you.

四、你要学会捂上自己的耳朵，不去听那些熙熙攘攘的声音；这个世界上没有不苦逼的人，真正能治愈自己的，只有你自己。

You have to learn to cover their ears, not to listen to the noise of the bustling; There is no one in this world who is not helpless and painful. Only you can truly heal yourself.

五、身边没撕破脸的人太多了，明明看透了很多人却不能轻易翻脸，对讨厌的人和事露出微笑是我们必须要学会的恶心。

There are too many people around did not tear up the face, clearly see through a lot of people but can not easily turn over, to hate people and things smile is what we must learn to disgusting.

六、你会不断的遇见一些人，也会不停的和一些人说再见，从陌生到熟悉，从熟悉再回陌生，从臭味相投到分道扬镳，从相见恨晚到不如不见。

You will continue to meet some people, and will keep saying goodbye to some people, from strange to familiar, from familiar to strange, from the smell of congenial to part ways, from the meeting hate to not see.

七、敬往事个屁酒，该敬的是那个勇敢的自己，那个遭受了所有失望和背叛后，依然踌躇满志，敢爱敢恨的自己。

Respect the past a fart wine, the respect is the brave themselves, that suffered all the disappointment and betrayal, still complacent, dare to love dare to hate their own.

八、走不通的路就回头，爱而不得的人就放手，得不到的热情就适可而止，别把一厢情愿当成满腔孤勇，也别把厌烦当成欲擒故纵。

If you can't walk the right way, turn back. If you don't love someone, let go. If you can't get the enthusiasm, stop. Don't treat wishfulness as solitary courage or boredom as indulgence.

九、人生就是一列开往坟墓的列车，路途上会有很多站，很难有人可以自始至终陪着走完，当陪你的人要下车时，即使不舍，也该心存感激，然后挥手道别。

Life is a train to the grave. There will be many stops on the way. It's very difficult for someone to walk with you all the time. When you want to get off, you should be grateful, even if you don't give up, and then wave goodbye.

十、不必太纠结于当下，也不必太忧虑未来，当你经历过一些事情的时候，眼前的风景已经和从前不一样了。

Don't be too obsessed with the present or worry about the future. When you experience something, the scenery is different from the past.

十一、有时候看错人，不是因为瞎，而是因为善良。有时候帮错人，不是因为蠢，而是因为把感情看得太重。有时候忍下，不是因为没理，而是不愿去争了。

Sometimes the wrong people, not because blind, but because of kindness. Sometimes help the wrong people, not because of stupid, but because the feelings of too much. Sometimes endure, not because of unreasonable, but do not want to fight.

十二、尽己力，听天命。无愧于心，不惑于情。顺势而为，随遇而安。知错就改，迷途知返。在喜欢自己的人身上用心，在不喜欢自己的人身上健忘。如此一生，甚好。

Do your best and listen to god. No shame in the heart, not confused in the situation. Take things as they come. A fault confessed is a fault forgotten. We put our heart into those who like us, and forget about those who don't. Such a life, very good.

十三、这个世界上没有人有义务对你好，所以你应该这样想，那些冷漠和刻薄是理所当然，那些温柔相待才更应该珍惜。

No one in this world has the obligation to be good to you, so you should think, those cold and mean is taken for granted, those gentle treatment should be more cherished.

十四、再烫手的水还是会凉，再饱满的热情还是会退散，再爱的人也许会离开，所以你要乖要长大，不再张口就是来日方长，而要习惯人走茶凉。

Hot water will still be cool, then full of enthusiasm or will retreat, and then love people may leave, so you have to be good to grow up, no longer open mouth is long, and to get used to people go tea cool.

十五、当有人突然从你的生命中消失，不用问为什么，只是他或她到了该走的时候了，你只需要接受就好，不论朋友，还是恋人。所谓成熟，就是知道有些事情终究无能为力。

When someone suddenly disappears from your life, don't ask why, just when it's time for him or her to leave, you just need to accept it, whether it's a friend or a lover. Maturity means knowing that something can't be done after all.

十六、你已经是个大人了，别再因为一点感情问题就失魂落魄。你可以有一段糟糕的爱情，但不能放纵自己过一个烂透的人生。

You're an adult now. Don't lose your mind because of a little emotional problems. You can have a bad love, but you can't indulge in a bad life.

十七、永远不要因为别人的言论而怀疑自己，也不要因为喜欢谁而看低自己。你所有的优缺点，都是为了能接纳你现在这个样子的人而准备的。

Never doubt yourself because of what others say or belittle yourself because of who you like. All your strengths and weaknesses are prepared to accept people like you.

十八、决定放弃了的事，就放弃得干干净净，别拖泥带水；那些决定再也不见面的人，就真的别见了。请别委屈痛楚的再做背叛自己的事了。如果要爱别人，就请先好好爱自己。

If you decide to give up something, you should give it up clean and don't drag it along; those who decide never to meet again will really be gone. Please don't be grieving and betraying yourself again. If you want to love others, please love yourself first.

十九、小时候，以为心事可以说给最亲的人听，长大了才知道，有些事情有些泪，只能吞进肚子里慢慢难受，总好过说出来别人不懂，反骂你矫情。

When I was a child, I thought I could tell my heart to the dearest person. When I grew up, I knew that some things had tears in them. I could only swallow them slowly and feel uncomfortable.

二十、某天你一定会感谢那个遗弃你的人，感谢那个你曾深爱着却置之你不顾的人。他的放弃，促使你找到更好的下一个。记住，永远不要为一个不爱你的人，去浪费一分一秒。

Someday you will be thankful for the one who abandoned you, for the one you loved so much and left behind. He gives up, prompting you to find a better next. Remember, never waste a minute for someone who doesn't love you.

二十一、好好珍惜对你好的人，别等心碎了拿歉意拼凑，弄丢了，上哪也找不回来。离开了，互联网也联系不上。别等人都不在了，才知道对方的好，有个令人尴尬的词，叫做“为时已晚”。

Cherish the good people for you, don't wait for heartbreak to take the apology to put together, lost, where also can't find back. Left, the Internet also cannot contact. Don't wait for no one, to know each other's good, there is an embarrassing word, called “it is too late”.

二十二、与人相处：你尊重我，我就尊重你，你无视我，我就无视你，就这么简单！别惯坏了不知领情的人；别喂饱了不懂回馈的心。

Get along with people: you respect me, I respect you, you ignore me, I ignore you, so simple! Don't spoil the ungrateful; Don't feed the heart that doesn't know how to give back.

二十三、有的时候，老天爷让你结束一段关系并不是没收你的幸福，而是老天爷一直将你的不快乐看在眼里，连老天都心疼你，觉得他不配，所以放你走。

Sometimes, god let you end a relationship is not confiscate your happiness, but god has been your unhappy in the eyes, even god loves you, think he does not deserve, so let you go.

二十四、别怕，也别怂，感情就是这样，没有失去你不会成熟，生活也是这样，没有遇到点险恶，你不会长大。你想要的，老天不一定会给你，你只有努力去争取，别辜负爱你的人，别辜负你自己。

Don't be afraid, don't also, feelings are like this, no loss you will not mature, life is like this, no encounter a little sinister, you will not grow up. You want, god will not give you, you only strive for, don't live up to the people who love you, don't live up to yourself.

二十五、小时候脸皮薄，别人两句硬话就要哭出泪来。后来慢慢面子坚硬起来，各种冷嘲热讽可以假装听不见。其实大多数的时候，我们没资格优雅的活着。所以什么时候能厚着脸皮去生活了，你就真的懂了生活。

When I was a child, thin skin, others two hard words will cry tears. Then slowly face hard up, all kinds of cynicism can pretend not to hear. In fact, most of the time, we are not qualified to live gracefully. So when you have the cheek to live, you really understand life.